by Mark Davison
October 18. 2011 14:37
Good managers tell staff what they want to hear and also what they don’t want to hear, but need to hear, to optimize performance and growth.
Staff wants to hear…
- Thanks for arriving early
- I’m glad you’re here
- I’m glad you’re on this project
- You have great skills and experience
- You’re off to a great start
- Great idea
- Great question
- Excellent report
- Thanks for sending that email
- Your progress is on track, lets move on to the next steps
- Great work, we’re going to implement your recommendations
- I couldn’t have done it better myself
- Keep up the good work
- Everybody makes mistakes, I’m sure you’ll do better next time
- How can I help?
- You got this assignment because I'm confident you can do it well
- Thank you for all your hard work
- I’m recommending you for promotion
- I’m recommending you for a raise
Staff doesn’t want to, but should, hear … (but you need to tell them anyway)
- I need you to arrive earlier
- I’ll be watching your work closely to be sure you get it right
- What is your role on this project again?
- You need to speak up
- You need to do this assignment over and get it right
- You are not off to a great start, you need to make some corrections
- You need some new ideas, go back to your desk and work on them
- You are underperforming, you can do better
- You have a lot to learn before you are ready for additional responsibility
- Don’t bring me your problems, think how you would handle them and bring me solutions
- You should know better than to have made that mistake
- You need to work smarter and harder
- I’m not recommending you for a raise
- I’m not recommending you for promotion
- You need to listen better
- You need to work better with others